• sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    4 days ago

    the amount of woman I had act thirsty over me asking what frat I was in just to lose all interest when I said none is hilariously high. Obv not all women, but a good small amount does like fucking dudes just because they are in frats.

    Do you have any theory as to why? Is it a status thing? Where they want to sleep with someone with status?

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      4 days ago

      But if you’ve ever wanted a sorority girl as a dude, it’s kinda the same. The more popular ones seem like microcelebs I guess.

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      Status, access, dont forget a lot of these kids are rich rich, so trying to get that golden handcuff on early. Probably just an in group / out group dynamic as well. I never got to specifically ask, but i spend a lot of time thinking about it 20 years later. We were all about partying and the frats had the biggest parties, and they were somewhat exclusive. If you’re joining these orgs youre porbably looking for like minded people. im sure some of it was harmless, some of it was stupid, and some of it was social. but boy it was a very real phenomenon. The next one i showed up at I had a whole frat boy background ready to goooooo

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      4 days ago

      Kinda, they see it as a flex to have slept with someone at a more popular frat (changed every year) and it makes them feel connected.

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      4 days ago

      Get a frat boy for benefits. There is selling oneself for things bedsides money.