I just don’t go to that coffee shop. Problem solved. They can say whatever they want. If I don’t support it I don’t go. I don’t see how the coffee shop argument hold up. And if enough people hold the same views they close.

Meta however is too big to fail. Which gives them a free pass to pass their cancerous views onto society while knowing no matter how much the general public hates them and their shitty views they will continue to use the platform because their friends and family still use it. Enshittification. If my coffee shop enshittifies I tell them to pound sand.

https://github.com/madeofpendletonwool/PinePods

This type of syncing between devices is like the entire reason my project, Pinepods exists. It’s a full podcast system with apps everywhere. Everything is handled server side. Which clearly isn’t a problem for you since you’re on a self hosted community.