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  • nomad@infosec.pubtomemes@lemmy.worldVulnerable
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    2 days ago

    I would bet this is an oh overly active survival instinct. I feel like people describe this if I’m awoken by an unknown noise in the house. Often i don’t even know what awoke me, but I usually feel a mixture of vivid paranoia coming on mixed with the calm feeling the game of archival is on. I call it the silent killer mode and i imagine that’s how cats feel on a hunt. Usually goes away after listening for a few minutes and trying to chill. Sometimes I have to check the house to make it go away.

    There is a variation since i have kids that feels like its too silent in the house and something is terribly wrong with one of the kids. I have to check all three are breathing normally before it goes away.





  • Male here, so might not be applicable: I felt like you described about a year ago. That was shortly before the big crash. I don’t like the word burnout, but two naps per day, three to five cups of coffee and loads of sugar just to function is a good indicator your tanks are empty and you are running on fumes and stress alone. Its been a year and slowly reducing sugar and getting off caffeine for a month let me feel the deep tiredness again. I’m slowly gaining back the ability to even sleep through the night. If you can, reduce stress, keep sleeping as much as you can and cut off caffeine slowly. I stopped cold Turkey and it gave me a migrante so hard I nearly called an ambulance. What you describe is not normal and please take care of you.

    Also way back in reddit times, there was a poster that had somediseases they only found because he started to nap constantly. I don’t remember the details but I thought I might have that. 9 months of reduced work and stress and lots of sleep, I’m slowly coming back to my senses.





  • I agree mostly. The test is the same but its a somewhat more trusted third party. And my brother regularly stayed home for 14 days to play video games before they introduced the tests laughing his ass off that he got full pay. And especially on Lemmy you see a lot of anti employer sentiment. I’m not saying it’s not earned, but I’m also a small business owner and am very lucky that my employees feel valued and are honest with me, because somebody missing too much work would probably bankrupt me sooner or later. Yes they feel treated well and are payed very well, but thats not a guarantee they won’t exploit my good will, had some of those as well and they usually don’t stay for long luckily.